Sunday, January 23, 2011

the key to change is to let go of fear

This quote from Rosanne Cash sums up my recent hair colour decision.  I am wary of change and was so comfortable with my blonde hair that I was stuck in a style rut.  My roots were growing out, the hue was washing me out but it was a colour I could hide under, something I was used to.  So when my best friend and I were discussing hair changes, we both thought it would be nice to go back to my natural hair colour of auburn.  Well that's not exactly what the hairdresser gave me.  I ended up with this fiery red shade (which is even brighter in person).  The colour made me feel like such a stranger in my own skin, I cried hysterically when the boy picked me up from the hair salon.  I swore that I would never leave the house, that I would be forced to wear a hijab to hide the crazy hair.  Within an hour, I was past the hysteria and starting to embrace the new me- seeing it as an opportunity for a fabulous new look (and a powerful statement at that!)

Tell me the truth- what do you think of the new me? (bear in mind these photos were taken after an ocean of tears which wiped away any trace of makeup!)



18 comments:

  1. OMG....I LOVE IT! U WERE BORN TO BE RED GIRL! You look hawt. love love love it. Great choice of color.

    xoxo Monroe

    Fashion Steele NYC

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  2. OMG! You look beautiful! I was super shock to see the new you in my bogroll. The colour looks good on you... it makes your cheeks glow a rosy pink and your complexion looks great. Your hair is so shiny, and I love the highlights in that colour.

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  3. Hey Babe, thanks for the supportive comment. It really means a lot :) I just wanted to say that I tagged you! Check it out: http://pink-beautiful-love.blogspot.com/2011/01/ive-been-caught.html

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  4. I've always dreamed of going that color! I LOOVE it. You are such a beauty.

    x

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  5. I Loooooooove it!!! u are gorgeous!!! xoxox

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  6. I like it! It's beautiful. I know change is scary and it'll take you a while to adjust, but I think you'll end up liking this. Try to relax and accept all the compliments that will flow your way.

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  7. I think it looks absolutely beautiful on you! It's a great change, but I understand how it could be weird looking in the mirror for the first little while! Just remember you're GORGEOUS!

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  8. Your color is awesome! I wish I could rock that color! Super nice pics!

    Hugs,
    http://achameleonscloset.blogspot.com/

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  9. Aww yay! I actually really like it. Weird because--as you know--I just went from red to blonde for very similar reasons. In both of our cases, I think the blonde works for us, but that doesn't mean it's the BEST for us. I totally know what you mean about blonde washing out your complexion. I think it did that to me, too. Congrats on your new color! It really does look good, and even if you decide to change it in a while, at least you had the guts to try something else!

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  10. I think you look gorgeous. It will take sometime for you to get used to it but you look hot!
    My Heart Blogged - Fashion Blogging

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  11. Yay, new hair colour, new style, new attitude, yes?

    I love it Em!

    Stay Happy and Positive!

    besos,

    ML


    20 YORK STREET

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  12. Honestly I really love it. You've complemented it really well with what you're wearing too!
    Thanks for your lovely comments.
    xxx

    theothersideofthepondmydear

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  13. Brings out your lovely natural colouring,and big brown eyes. I approve thoroughly!

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  14. Thanks everyone- such kind comments :) I am already feeling more confident with your help! @Ashelle- yay thanks- I will post my seven secrets asap! @Ashley- I do agree that pale skin can become almost translucent with blonde hair but I agree that a few different colours can look good!

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  15. I think you look great! You probably need a little time to get used to the change because it's so different. But you do look beautiful. I look forward to seeing more pictures of you with your new hair color. And come to think of it, the red hair does looks "more you".

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  16. i 100% agree with you. thriftstores are THE ultimate way to go! that oversized white leather and brown clutch is beaaaautiful and i love all the dramatic jewelry! =)

    http://pinkchampagnefashion.blogspot.com/

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  17. Your hair's looking lovely here.

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One of my daily joys is reading the lovely comments you leave. It may take a day or two (or three, depending on how hectic life gets!) but I will stop by your slice of the blogosphere soon! xo Emily